The Thing About Candles

How do you make a candle last forever?

As I reflect on the past nights of Hanukkah, the first thing that comes to mind is the light. We start by lighting the shamash (servant) candle that is placed in the middle of the hanukkiah, and then we use the shamash to light the other candles. The first night, it’s just one candle and the shamash, but each night another candle is added until they total eight. What starts small grows into beauty and brilliance.

I know many menorahs and hanukkiahs are fashioned with the shamash at one end, but there’s a reason why it belongs in the middle. At most, maybe slightly raised or set in front of the other branches.

It’s all about balance.

Read Torah to see that Adonai Himself designed the menorah, and because He did, the menorah is perfect. Hanukkiahs, created with two extra branches because of the eight-night miracle of oil, followed suit.

Yes, the menorah and hanukkiah reflect light, which is a picture of HaShem, but they also represent balance, which is an equally important picture of the one and only living God. If branches on either side were lost or broken off, the menorah/hanukkiah could not stand in balance. The same is true of us, who are also pictured by the menorah/hanukkiah. If we go too far to the left (a picture of the physical) or the right (a picture of the spiritual) we will be out of balance, and everything we do diverts from Adonai’s perfect path.

That’s not to say that one side is more important than the other. However, don’t be so physically/worldly minded that you become an animal, but by the same token, don’t become so spiritually minded that you’re of no earthly good. Maintain balance.

Remember Who gave you your light!

The shamash, or servant, candle represents HaMashiach, who belongs in the center of our life so we can maintain balance. The beautiful thing about Yeshua is that His light never diminishes within us as long as we keep Adonai’s commands.

Again, in HaShem’s perfect, infallible Word, we see the Light that has been there all along, waiting for us to discover Him in this dark world. King David said as much in his Psalms, and he understood that Torah is the lamp, the Word is the Light. His direct descendant, King Yeshua, confirmed the declaration, and it is recorded by His disciple, John.

Everyday miracles.

The story of the Maccabees happened to Israel, but there are many reasons why everyone would benefit from keeping Hanukkah.

First, it is a time to rededicate yourself to Adonai. Repentance is so important to Our Father, Our King. His grace is all over Torah, and one doesn’t have to dig very hard to find it or see that He didn’t quickly invent grace for HaMashiach’s arrival. It’s been there all along.

Second, consider the miracle performed by HaShem on behalf of Israel. The simple commodity of oil was required to keep the command to light the menorah. But the oil had to be pure. We, too, in order to reflect Adonai’s Light, need to be pure. And just like the miracle of the oil, when we conduct ourselves purely, the simple things in our life extend until we realize they are blessings.

Third, Adonai’s truths are all over the story of the Maccabees and Hanukkah! I believe my favorite has always been the tremendous victory by HaShem as He used a small contingent to do so. Our Creator always works with tiny percentages and remnants from which and with whom He does amazing things.

Better than physical light.

So how does one make a candle last forever? By lighting it.

I’ve studied physical light in school, and although I’ve forgotten much about wavelengths, photons, particles required for light to travel, etc., etc., what I remember the most is that light goes on forever. What I’ve learned by studying Torah is that spiritual light possesses many of the same qualities but in a better way.

We are the candles through which HaShem’s Light shines brightly, and even one of us can scatter the darkness. But we must remain lit from within by the Servant Candle. This is accomplished by returning to the source of all Light, i.e., Torah. Get your recharge daily.

We should stand tall, shoulder to shoulder, with the other lights on Adonai’s menorah all year long. By doing so, the Light in us will attract other people to our Light. Equally important is how we may need to shine more brightly when a loved one’s flame seems to flicker or go dim. Don’t forget the necessity of shining Light to other candles.

Like a physical candle, you may have times when you feel absolutely spent. Like spiritual light, when you know where to find the fire to relight yourself, you will shine more brightly once again. That is the type of Light that continues forever.

Great things are coming.

In the past, I’ve experienced post-Hanukkah melancholy because once the eight nights were completed, I quickly found myself between the millstones of the daily grind. This year, I’m going to work harder on me to ensure that my Light stays lit.

Yes, things look hopeless in the world right now. I see the nations coming against Adonai’s people. I heard, dare I say it, that people are calling current events World War III. I’m not fazed by any of this because appearances are deceiving, people love to label everything, and Adonai is still on the throne.

The eighth night of Hanukkah begins at sundown tonight. Eight represents new life. Will you begin your life anew with us?

See you at sundown.

~The Gibsons

Hanukkah ~ Not for the Weak!

As I reflect on the past four days of Hanukkah, prepare for the fifth night of celebration, and rejoice in the miracle that took place for eight nights in a row, it’s the strength of the Maccabees that I’m drawing on right now! Seriously, eight food-, wine-, and dessert-filled days of partying are not to be taken lightly. But I believe I’m up to the challenge.

Last night, we enjoyed a gold star meal of brisket and roasted vegetables prepared by my mother; cheesy potatoes, apple pie, and eggnog with bourbon supplied by my brother and sister-in-law; and Basil Haydn Punch and Hanukkah-themed goodies courtesy of Will and me.

One highlight of the evening was when Dad broke out his famous fruitcake. He lets it sit for at least one day to allow the flavors to meld before serving. I swear, my dad gets better every year at making this cake. His recipe is a closely guarded family secret, so if you want it, you’re going to have to marry into the family or become a close friend!

I do have pictures to share, but again, we all laughed at not having pre-dinning photos of all the beautiful food or our hanukkiahs with four nights-worth of candles. We’ll try again tonight as we light five candles with the shamash.

Praying Adonai’s blessings on you and yours. We’ll see you tonight at sundown.

~The Gibsons

Festival of Lights

Hey, Realmers! I’m back after two days of amazing Hanukkah celebration. Since I don’t work on Shabbat, I need to catch you up so you’ll know what’s going on.

The second night of Hanukkah was also Erev Shabbat, and Will and I had the pleasure of dining with Grant and Robin Luton. Making the evening even more special was the honor of celebrating the birthday of Robin’s mother, Jeanne Anderson, who is a dear friend. This beautiful lady is eighty-two years young, and I am so glad Adonai brought her into my life.

Jeanne is the very essence of strength and grace. She is a pillar of wisdom who has shined a bright light into my life. My only regret is that I didn’t meet her sooner, and so I cherish every moment I get to spend with her.

Also present were Lindsay Luton, Grant and Robin’s daughter; Jim Anderson, Jeanne’s husband; and Ron Anderson, Jeanne and Jim’s son.

Robin made a delicious meal, we enjoyed lovely discussions on topics ranging from hilarious to serious, and best of all, we prayed together expressing gratitude for the many blessings Adonai has bestowed upon us and requesting his divine guidance into our lives and regarding Israel.

For the third night of Hanukkah, we were back at my folks’ home for another delicious meal, mulled wine (Mulled Wine Recipe), and dessert from Shell’s Confections! If you’ve never had anything from Shell’s, just let me say that not only are her creations absolutely beautiful, but they are also incredibly delicious.

I made a special request of Hanukkah-themed treats, and what I received far exceeded my expectations. Spice cake with golden raisin cupcakes topped with buttercream frosting, sugar cookies with buttercream frosting, and minted white chocolate covered Oreos all in Hanukkah-themed colors and decorations have kept us happy for three nights, but I don’t see them lasting past the fourth night of Hanukkah!

As requested, I finally remembered to take a picture of Will’s tealights, but I forgot to take a picture of our hanukkiah with candles for the third night. Mom and I laughed because we’re always so in the moment that it’s a wonder we remember to take any pictures at all.

That wraps up the past two days. Tonight is the fourth night of Hanukkah, and we’ll see you at sundown.

~The Gibsons

Quotation Station

Today’s Quotation Station includes a Hanukkah report from last night’s celebration, which was a smashing success. It always is, though, when dining on pizza and wings from our favorite restaurant, Gionino’s. It may not be typical Hanukkah food, but when my husband, son, and I worked Thursday, well, takeout it is! Besides, in the past, we tried to consume all the fried food the celebration usually calls for and just about killed ourselves.

We joined my parents at their home, lit all the candles Will required in his desire to shine extra bright this Hanukkah, and had a great time visiting, laughing, joking, and just generally basking in Adonai’s light. You know, I just realized I forgot to take a picture of all the extra tealights, but I can tell you they were gorgeous! The house just glowed with true shalom.

The hanukkiah always looks a little sparse with only two candles (the shamash and the first night candle), but like hope, as each successive candle is added, the light grows, and grows, and grows!

One lesson I have learned with Hanukkah is that patience is key. Isn’t that true with most things in our lives? We want success, rescue, answers, and basically everything immediately. That’s the beauty of Hanukkah: the Light, like wisdom, understanding, knowledge, and discernment, builds over time. And if you’re paying attention, you gain some maturity along the way and realize this is how it should be.

I’m offering tonight’s prayer while lighting your hanukkiah as today’s quotation:

Praised are you, Lord our G-d,

Ruler of the universe,

who performed wonderous deeds for

our ancestors at this season.

Tonight is also an extra special night of Hanukkah because it’s also Erev Shabbat. Shabbat Shalom! Don’t forget to light your Shabbat candles, too!

See you at sundown when we add a little more Light to an otherwise dark world.

~The Gibsons